In personal development and life coaching there are GOALS to be achieved and to works towards.
A life coach might ask you how do you want to be be in 5 years time? or, What is going to be like?
It is beautiful to have a vision, to imagine how is going to be and how it will feel like in your body as if it is already happening, but envisioning and believing the the universe is going to give it to you like you imagine it as a sort divine formula it is not enough.
It it studied that the subconscious mind can be altered and programmed by imagination and feeling, which is like seeing yourself in the scenario that you would like to have have happened, feel it in the body as it is already happening, as if you are living it now, as the subconscious mind doesn't recognize what is real or imagined when it is lived in the present. The more you do that the more the subconscious mind start to believe it and bring about the right situation, opportunities and events to make it happen. It also doesn't know right or wrong, so whatever you imagine and feel is what you are going to get.
Is great to dream and to envision, but there is only on catch: YOU NEED TO PUT THE WORK IN!
If you have a vision, a dream, you have to work towards it! You have to have discipline, a strategic plan, do the right moves and be open to fail but the most important thing which is the WHY, the meaning that you have about what you want.
So you can ask yourself this 2 important questions?
• WHY do you I it to happen?
Is your vision, your dream, your goal appealing that makes you wake up every morning and be thankful that you have another opportunity to work towards it? (as you work toward you are already it) Why is it so important for you as you choose to place your energy into what you are wanting instead of something else?
• Is your WHY positive or negative?
To being able to work with all of your internal resources, to have the 3 brains working together and the 3 intelligence of the body aligned (guts, heart and brain) you have to have a positive "mission statement", your motive, which create motivation to work on it and also your instinct, your heart, your logic. Have your parts together as a team that support each other.
Once you have a clear understanding of why you are embarking on the journey towards the destination, commit to yourself. If you WHY is strong enough would have 10 out of 10 intention, commitment and enthusiasm and won't need anybody to help you boost motivation.
Everyday you will take steps that moves you toward the attainment of your desired result.
You might have heard before that is not about the destination but the journey, that is about who you become when you get there, because guess what?
When you get there, you will find that you want something else.
So be with you, accept what you don't know yet, accept that you will make mistakes, accept that it might not be easy, accept that you have to workout emotionally and physically and as you do you become, stronger, resilient, grateful, evolved.
It is not easy and is not for everybody to develop will power that enable to transform owns life.
In my life coaching practice i come across many people that want to change, that are not happy with their current situation. They get inspired but only some of them transformed in the better version of themselves, the overcome the veil of their own conditioning and limiting beliefs. Others for as much and get motivated they don't. What is the difference?
Being ready, being decisive, the new path is forward not behind and forgiving yourself and others in the reconstructed past. From the present moment develop your new self today, everyday making the future becoming now.
The journey is about the right step today and it is only about time till you start seeing the results.
Do it unconditionally for yourself and so for the world.
If you want to experience how personal development life coaching can ignite your inner motive, your true meaning, uncover underlined unconscious programming that results in limiting beliefs and low confidence, contact me blow for a free coaching session where you can discover your inner power and resources.
I am Simone Franchi, a certified life coach, trained meta coach, nlp master practitioner, integral semantic facilitator and I am passionate about human development.
I offer personal coaching sessions in Sydney, via phone or skype and also i coach Australia wide. I also run workshops for personal and team development